Hi Team Flyer,
Here we are with part three of this month-long series of motivating you and reminding you that you are doing so much better than you think.
You do you, boo.
Yes, babe, you actually find someway somehow to get time in just for you. Regardless the fact that you time means watching Netflix as a passion or going running every day, whether it is knitting or going to animal shelters, whether it is clubbing or walking all day long… you have a chance to take time out for yourself.
You may think you that your schedule is so booked that you don’t even have time for yourself. However if you really look, you would see there are activities that you do that are all about you. And that is a beautiful thing.
Make a list of daily activities you do. And check out the ones that are only for you. Keep track of them! Because that way you can add and readjust them to make sure you keep doing things just for you. Do whatever makes your soul happy. Usually once a day, at least, if not, readjust those sails and do them once a week! You do you, boo.
You like something!!
Yes, darling, you have interest in something, from binge-watching Gilmore Girls to going on walks! You know that there are certain things you like and you find ways to pursue them. Much like stated above, you need to do you.
Moving beyond that, knowing what you like is actually something extremely important. When you realize what you like, you already have seen a light in the dark. How? Because that thing you like is something that motivates you to push forward. And I bet you don’t only like one thing, you like tons.
This is a clear sign of “you are doing better than you think” because you express curiosity, interest and desire. That is all positive, baby! Plus, as we say, lists! If you make lists to see what you do, you are getting to know yourself a lot more.
I know what I want
At this rate, no matter the depth, you know yourself more. You have reflected or just thought about something so many times that you know what you like or dislike.
You know who to talk to when you are feeling sad, you know where to go to celebrate, you know how many hours of sleep you need to make you feel like the boss you are, you know what extra cuddle you need on off days and so much more… this, this makes you so much valuable.
This helps you realize once again that you are doing better than you think! When the first person you can count on is yourself, knowing how to treat yourself is a huge deal. Keep doing things that make you shine, make you feel better and do what is best for you.
You got a roof under your head and a place to call your own
Whatever it may be, if it a house, a dorm, a bedroom, a corner, a dock, a deck, a spot or a couch… you got a place to call yours, your own, your space, your sacred place, your escape zone where only you have the control.
And that right there, is pure paradise because it is your area to do what you love and feel free… you are already doing better than you think…
This one is simple. This is a reminder to be thankful of what you have and how much you have. Once again, this list is all about making lists. They work! You need to search outward this time and list all that the wonderful things you are thankful for.
You take responsibility for your life
So many people think that the world owes them something. They would rather play a victim or live in past. Without taking responsibility for their own actions…
And then, there is you… you, that not only at this point you have gotten up countless of times, you know how to own up to your mistakes and move on without hanging on to the past. (And even if you are not fully there with letting go, you do recognize your faults and learn from them.)
And that is a lot more than what some people can say. Life hasn’t gotten any easier, at all, you just gotten smarter.
Team Flyer! Do you feel the vibe that you are better than you think? What more can you add to this list. Be sure to stay tuned next week on the last of this month long series.
The Always Believer